There is a concern, like in Malls of homosexuals making out, that Oreo cookies (really artificial food, perhaps even with bioactive gender bending chemicals included) will create a small wave of public Weltschmerz. You know, like when you came up on a person with lovely long hair and thought to introduce yourself, just to find out - she has a beard and a low voice. Damn, am I embarrassed now!
This happens, and of course they tell you it is only 0.25% of the population. But hey, once it is encountered and people do not react, I swear it increases. You run into more of this social confusion. Man or a woman? It is the first thing a social being wonders about. For some it is the fear of them taking down their trousers and hey, great embarrassment. People have been shot over this sort of thing. It is sort of rule 1 of high etiquette: Present yourself socially, as who you are. And this includes your sex.
True as it may be, all social interactions do not involve sex- but even so, "Excuse me sir, or ahem, madam!". God am I embarrassed now. Excuse me could you answer a question for me? If you ordered a wedding cake for yourself, how would you have it made?
To lessen the Weltschmirz, would it be too much to ask, to have the external expression of oneself, match the internal parts? It may not feel like you, but if you look down there, to that God gave you and it matches your outward appearance, hey- that is you. If you are still confused, after looking down there, howsa about just choosing one or the other and just sticking with it?